Estate Planning Mistakes: The Risks of Adding Your Kids to Your Home’s Title

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Are you thinking of adding your children to the title of your home as part of your estate plan? It sounds like a no-brainer, right? But hang on. This move, as simple as it seems, may not be your best bet. We’re going to unravel the not-so-obvious downsides of this strategy and show you some smarter alternatives to ensure your estate planning is effective – and your home is safe – without the headaches. Let’s dive in.

1. The Importance of Maintaining Ownership

Adding your children to your home’s title might sound like sharing is caring, but it’s an immediate loss of control of your property. Once your children are co-owners, they get a say in what happens to the house. Imagine one child wants to sell, but the other wants to keep the property. Or you want to sell the house and they say no. Yes, it can get as messy as it sounds and lead to big disagreements. Keeping full control means you call the shots, both during your lifetime and beyond. 

2. Exposure to Their Debts and Liabilities

If your childrens’ finances hit a rough patch (think debts, legal woes, or bankruptcy), guess what’s potentially on the line? That’s right… your home. Your child’s financial difficulties can expose your home to potential creditors.

3. Gift Tax and Capital Gains Consequences

Adding children to your home’s title can trigger gift tax implications, which is a bit like handing the IRS an unintended invitation. There are annual gift tax exclusions, there’s a limit to the amount of money or property that can be transferred tax-free. And if your children sell the home later, they could face capital gains taxes on the increase in value since your original purchase. This could be a significant financial hit. Additionally, when your children eventually sell the property, they may be subject to capital gains tax on the appreciation since the original purchase, which could be a significant financial burden.

4. Unequal Inheritance: Distributing Your Assets Fairly Among Your Heirs

If you have more than one child, adding them to the title equally distributes the ownership of the property among them. This can lead to unequal inheritance for your other heirs, potentially causing family conflicts and disputes.

5. Retaining Flexibility: Adapting Your Estate Plan to Changing Circumstances

Once you’ve added your children to the title of your home, it can be challenging to make changes if circumstances change. For instance, if you need to sell the property to fund long-term care or adjust in your estate plan, you may face resistance or complications from your children who are co-owners. 

Alternatives to Adding Children to Your Home’s Title

Instead of adding your children to the title of your home as an estate planning tool, there are several alternative strategies to consider:

1. Revocable Living Trust: Establishing a revocable living trust allows you to maintain control of your property during your lifetime while providing for a seamless transition to your heirs upon your passing.

2. Last Will and Testament: A properly drafted will can specify how your property should be distributed after your death, ensuring your wishes are honored.

3. Power of Attorney and Advance Healthcare Directive: These documents can help protect your interests during your lifetime in case you become incapacitated.

4. Consult with a Professional: Seek advice from an estate planning attorney or financial planner to create a comprehensive estate plan tailored to your specific needs and goals.

Meet Your Estate Planning Goals Without Risking Your Home

In conclusion, while adding your children to the title of your home might seem like a straightforward estate planning tool, it can bring about numerous challenges and unintended consequences. 

To ensure your assets are protected and your estate planning goals are met, it’s essential to explore alternative strategies and consult with professionals who can provide guidance and assistance in crafting a comprehensive and effective estate plan.

An active attorney for over 32 years, Greg Bennett is the lead attorney for Sapere Law’s Estate Planning department. In addition to estate planning, Greg represents private businesses in their formation, administration and transactions.

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